THUNDERBIRD THOUGHTS
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INDIGENOUS WORK AND THE WORKPLACE I spent over thirty years working in an institution with a culturally-diverse student body. The staff? Not so much. For twenty of those years, I was the only First Nations employee and sadly, it took me three times as long to move up the so-called 'corporate ladder'. I was naive enough in the early days to think that post-secondary educational institutions were enlightened places, unfortunately not so. Still aren't in some cases. The racial slurs that were said to my face, or implied prior to rules and equity policies would curl your hair. I have never in my life thought in terms of race, so each time it happened, it came as a surprise, and I found myself looking around before realizing that the slurs were directed at me. Even now, in my relatively advanced years, I still carry that element of surprise when it happens. I hope I never get over it, as I refuse to become hardened and prefer to educate rather than blame. In my early years? Not so much! I was angry that my prodigious skills in leadership, administrative policy and decision-making, creative and independent thinking, ability to get the best out of people, and sheer efficiency were not recognized. Skin colour has a way of blocking the light. I eventually made it to senior management, and vowed the day I got the job, that I would never do to others what was done to me. It was time to stop the cycle of bureaucratic abuse. I remembered a quote from former U.S. President Woodrow Wilson, odd I would think of an old-monied white guy on the most important day of my life, but there it is. He said: "We are not here merely to make a living. We are here in order to enable the world to live more amply, with greater vision, with finer spirit of hope and achievement. We are here to enrich the world. We impoverish ourselves if we forget our errand." Over the years, I had wished desperately that someone, anyone would recognize the fullness of my talents and liberate me from racial stereotyping. It took awhile, but eventually I realized I had to find the courage to do it myself. I did not feel very brave, I was a lone Indigenous woman in a field of non-Native sharks, who thought nothing of finding phrases like, "reserve Rita", "noble savage", "two tall totem" (a private nickname I discovered when someone inadvertently copied me on an email), funny and normal. I thought at first I had to laugh it off because I was frightened. The last straw came in an interview for a management position. One of the faculty members, stated quite baldly that "my kind" were not hired in their department. That, I should know better than to try to rise above my station (the year was 1980). I stood up, stopped the interview and went directly to the President. All hell broke loose after that and I never again allowed myself, in the words of the great Holy Man, Hin-Mah-Too-Lah-Yahk-Kekt (Chief Joseph), "to bow my head before any conqueror." The offending department head tried to wiggle out of what happened, but there were five other people in the room, so with great reluctance, he was forced to apologize. He was typical of the breed who lacked the courage to face up to 'not right' action which was a religion at my place of work. Ironically, it took that debacle to finally move me to the level of management. In the end it still wasn't my skills or education, but the fear of a public scandal that motivated the promotion. (Sigh!) Nonetheless, I was able to forge some solid relationships (the President at the time, included) and my stellar work record spoke for itself. I was a valuable member of the team, but not so naive by this point, that it couldn't be ripped away at a moment's notice. I brought my thirty staff together, and told them right up front that if the Medicine Wheel Teachings were true, then:
I introduced policies and practices that allowed for effective team-building and support. The buddy system really works! Without hesitation, I hired people with high degrees of skill, and surprise, surprise knew more than I did on some things! Employees were given some measure of control on a day-to-day basis, after all, they did the work, they knew best on a variety of issues. Motivation eventually became a non-issue. In other words, I refocused attention back on the employees and created a situation where they could choose to be a viable team member in a place of safety knowing that if they chose not to there would be no hard feelings and I would endeavour to find them a position elsewhere. It happened only once. It was not perfect, it never can be when a disparate group of humans get together. A state of symbiosis takes hard work, trust and commitment on both sides. Generally speaking, the situation where both management and staff had a pretty-much equal say in how things were run worked superbly. The staff were pretty over-whelmed in the beginning that there was a Manager who actually gave a damn about their lives, their work and their future goals. Interesting that no one commented or judged the fact that I was Indigenous. Such things were left to Senior Management to do! Too much work, too little time, lack of validation by Managers adds up to high absentee rates and general ennui in performing daily tasks. Company loyalty by employees is a dream only to be wished for and is more and more a thing of the past. All the pats on the back will not heal a stressed heart. If an employee is suffering from family strife; lack of a solid economic base; single parents with kids; divorces, deaths, etc., s/he will lack focused attention and commitment. Companies would probably save millions of dollars in lost productivity due to high absenteeism if they:
It seems to me that we often spend more time in the workplace than we do with our own families. It behooves us, therefore, to try to create connections with one another and find mutual rhythm, balance and harmony in order to achieve personal and company goals. Duh! I'm not sure why this seems to be so revelatory to many companies. If we all co-operated we could save the damn world! My skills as a Medicine Wheel teacher work seamlessly with my skills as a Senior Manager in a culturally diverse, unionized situation. Achieving the level of management does not mean that you forget where you came from!! Neither group should have to sell their souls to get the job done and it is no secret that contented humans encourages relationships that cross cultural, political, social and professional boundaries. Just get it done, people! Finally, in the words of Eleanor Roosevelt, "Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent." Serenity can be found within the Storm. Wilwilaaysk, All my Relations
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TO HEAL OR NOT TO HEAL, THAT IS THE QUESTION First Nations people are at a point in history where a decision - to move forward, or not must be made. Who does it benefit that we are taking the worst of European culture and using it against ourselves. How is helping with the healing process? Do we honour ourselves as well as our Ancestors who died often tragic deaths if we remain victims?an we continue along the road of victimization, despairing at our losses? We can no longer sit on the sidelines of our own cultures spinning our spiritual tires waiting for someone else to solve our problems. We can no longer remain static with our hands held out to the power brokers for more and more. We must stop creating toxicity within our own organizations with infighting, intimidation, power-mongering, in other words, politicking of the lowest forms. We can no longer continue along the path of reliving the suffering of our Ancestors over and over again. The Oppressed have become the Oppressors as we continue to fight and gossip among ourselves, about losing our ‘traditional values’. Do we, as Native people, really know what we are talking about when we expound on ‘traditional’ things? Have we raised several generations of Native people on a diet of generalities and trite phrases? We were not put here to be ploughed under by the miscreant ambitions of spiritually and morally bankrupt people both inside and outside Indian country. Each First Nations person born in the generations succeeding the first cultural genocide attempts are living with the fallout of continued pressure to assimilate into so-called mainstream Canadian culture. As a result, Native children are growing up in families bereft of the traditional teachings that sustained the tribes for thousands of years. They are grappling with the substance abuse of their grandparents and parents, often falling into the same patterns themselves because they feel helpless in the face of such despair, lack of mentorship and loving families. Subsequent generations not only carry the strain of individual anguish and attempts to heal, but as difficult as it is we also carry the responsibility of healing entire Native Nations. The despair is great and trying to find a cohesive way to heal is next to impossible – too much infighting, too much politicking on reserves as well as within urban native organizations. Into the mix comes stereotypical attitudes from the wider world that Native people are either saintly/spiritual souls or drug-addicted alcoholics. There seems to be no middle ground, and somehow out of all of this Native people have to "heal – and NOW, according to an impatient Canadian populace.!" As a sad Chippewa songs laments: "The Sound is Fading Away - It is of Five Sounds - Freedom - The Sound is Fading Away - It is of Five Sounds" I believe it to be possible to combine what we have left of our Native cultures, honour our memories and allow our histories to meet and thrive with the good things that come from the interaction with other cultural histories and relationships. Firstly, however, we must take a good hard look at who we are, and, more importantly who is telling us who we are both inside and outside our communities Never in the history of the world has a race of people been so exposed to so many people who know so little, but think they do. Never has a race of people had their culture purloined in so many ways by so many misguided souls who end up becoming more native than the Indigenous people themselves! And then to add insult upon injury, many of these same people say, “We give you money, why won’t you heal?”? To make matters worse, within our own people there are those who choose to elevate themselves to Leadership/Elder status having not done much in the way of spiritual work - read a few books, talked to a few people - BINGO! I am a carrier of sacred knowledge. Huh? How did that happen? Teachings can be easily skewed according to the mind set of the person giving them. Native people have been on sensory overload for seven hundred years trying to come to grips with the new religions, while still trying to hold on to whatever traditional values and spirituality we have left. This has been a bit of a losing battle as we now only have partial understanding of our cultures having lost so many generations of Native People to the horrors of Christian residential schools, Indian wars and racist laws, among other things. Therefore, it is very easy to set oneself up as a teacher of ‘things native’ because who is going to know if you are right or wrong? Six hundred years of dramatic history, full of all the attributes that make for a best-selling adventure/romance novel without the happy ending. Take for example, The Indian Wars in the mid-1800s in the United States. Red and White opponents, dashing and gallant in their respective worlds. Images in history books of British soldiers adorned in bright red coats, white breeches and shiny black boots striding in conspicuous fashion through the woods (what were they thinking?), secure in the knowledge that their devotion to God, Queen, Country and a really good musket would secure their victory and vanquish the ‘red devils’. On the side of the good guys are the ‘noble savages’ adorned in animal hides festooned with, you guessed it, fringe. Feathers flying in the wind as they galloped their ponies across the open-plains, whooping their steadfast belief that they could defend their way of life. Sounds like the makings of a bad Made for TV movie. In reality, the ‘Indian Wars’, were dirty, vicious and one-sided. In the United States, for example, the victories at the Rosebud and Little Big Horn Rivers in 1876 may have won the battles for some of the Plains Indians such as the Cheyenne and Nakota, but ultimately, and very soon after these victories, the war was lost. They were never again able to muster that much Native fighting power. The People were just too hungry and too divided and eventually succumbed to the inevitability of being forced onto reserves far from their ancestral homes. To pass on traditional knowledge requires dedication to a life filled with a large dose of listening, listening, listening, mixed with another healthy dose of integrity, mixed with a healthy dollop of Ethic #1, Non-interference, topped off with huge amounts of compassion, integrity and humour. In other words, to know where I am going, requires that I know where I came from. If I am going to ‘talk it’, then I had better be ‘walking it’. Wilwilaaysk, All My Relations.
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WHEN NATIVE IDENTITY IS A POSTCARD In the late twentieth and twenty-first centuries it is becoming increasingly difficult being a member of a First Nations because so many others who are not First Nations also want to join the party. Not only are The People trying to sort themselves out, but they are also having to deal with what I call "spiritual cherry pickers", those folks unhappy in their own skins, and see greener pastures in Native Spirituality. "Are you telling me you spent a weekend with an Elder, and now you are a pipe carrier for a tribe? Are you Native? No? How does that work? You mean to tell me that I didn’t have to spend forty years learning and living my Native culture? Damn!" Let us talk about the identity and healing process of the Red People for a bit. Fortunately, it is in the DNA of Native people to adapt to our surrounding environment. We have done it for thousands of years. Sheer survival depended on our willingness to adapt to change. In present day realities, perhaps we have not acted as quickly as others would like, in terms of healing and reconciliation, but it certainly has not stopped others from being attracted to ‘things native’. First Nations traditional culture and spiritual practices are routinely bought and sold for profit. In my frequent travels across Canada, one of my favourite pastimes is to drop into souvenir shops, and see the white-featured ‘Made in Japan’ Native dolls standing forlornly on dusty glass shelves beside ‘Made in Japan’ Royal Canadian Mounted Police (R.C.M.P.) dolls. The R.C.M.P. are still standing guard, even on glass shelves in cheesy souvenir shops! If ever there was a metaphor for why we are struggling with our healing, this is it. May I remind you that we are intelligent flesh and blood people with dreams, feelings and hopes for a wondrous future. Yet more often than not we are depicted as romantic images on postcards and calendars, to be sold as prime examples of Canada’s tolerance for racial and cultural diversity. People flock from other countries looking for the noble beast. The closest you will come in Toronto, will be to find life-sized statues of fibreglass moose on every Toronto street corner, a gift from a previous quirky Major in the late 1990s!! How many times have I been stopped on the street, and asked, "Are you a Real Indian?" My usual response is, "Why not ask the question you really want to know the answer to, Are you a fake Indian?" The response is usually a blush, a stammer and a slinking away down the street leaving me gnashing my teeth. Do not confuse me with the ‘wannabe Indians’, "I wannbe part of your culture, because mine sucks!" Although these misguided yet sometimes earnest souls are a source of much amusement, particularly to the Elders such as myself, many of them are very sincere and to them I tip my moccasins. However, there are others who tend to become self-proclaimed ‘Native’ experts after a weekend of Native culture, who then proceed to offer their own sweat lodges, and other sacred ceremonies for a price. I lament again, never has a culture had to put up with so much from so many for so little gain. AH, THE SHEER ROMANCE OF IT ALL Many people buy into the romance of Native culture. They envision tribes of saintly, spiritual Natives spread across the Plains, or along the shores of a vast, lush rainforests of the Pacific Northwest Coast, living in beautiful tipis and plank houses decorated with sacred symbols. I can see it all now. Grandfather Sun is just beginning his leisurely walk across Father Sky; another day of peaceful co-existence begins for the tribes. Grandfather Sun pauses to gaze benevolently upon this pastoral world. Warrior males, looking remarkably like bronzed Fabio’s standing nobly by, arms folded across oiled, well-muscled chests glistening in the aforementioned morning sun. They are festooned in fringe, got to have the fringe. Their women adorned in buckskin (and yet more fringe) serenely tend the fires while on their backs secured snugly into brightly decorated cradle boards chubby babies (wearing fringe of course) coo happily. Drums throb a steady beat, the voices of the Elders can be heard singing sacred songs as the young men of the tribe, gallop wildly and freely across the Plains, braids and feathers flying in the wind with not a care in the world. A truly bucolic landscape (like the Ancestors had time!!). There is a collective sigh as we all yearn for days gone by. You’re kidding right? Who actually believes this stuff? Answer: the Europeans for one. I was on a speaking engagement in Germany some years ago and there was more than a little disappointment that my keynote was not peppered with romantic references and rhetoric. They absolutely did not want to hear about reserves, residential school, or the 1876 Indian Act, which of course, is exactly what I gave them. I do not believe in sugar-coating that which is made of bile in order to create a fantasy world of romantic dreams and illusions for others to bask in. We are talking about repeated attempts at ethnic cleansing, and one would think, of all people, the Germans would have a little empathy and understanding. In retrospect, perhaps this is why they prefer to buy into the romance of Native culture, because the rest of it hits a little too close to home! Nonetheless, it will not be me who paints a distorted picture in order to save the delicate sensibilities of those who choose to believe another story. Next thing you know there will be a new production, "First Nations Holocaust: The Musical." Whose idea was it to think that the lives of Native people living in a harsh, untamed land should be so fictionally idealized? Do you really think that the average Plains Cree Warrior rose on the morning of the hunt, stepped smartly into a suit of buckskin pants and long-sleeved top (with fringe), placed upon his head a full ceremonial feathered headdress that flowed to his knees, jumped aboard his eager pinto and galloped across the Plains trying to bring down a thousand pound buffalo? Imagine the scene: Noble Savage wearing all those clothes, spurring a charging pony toward hundreds of thousands of thundering buffalo, trying to fit an arrow into a bow while at the same time spitting feathers out of his mouth, and trying to keep the flying fringe from flapping in his eyes. Works only in Hollywood movies folks. Carl May, you didn’t do us any favours. The line from the movie "Moonstruck" says it best, "Get Over It!" This isn’t the way it was or is. These stereotypical images endure however, as Native people are a saleable commodity. We make for really swell photographs. But in the cold light of day, when the lights from the cameras are off, and the tourists have gone home clutching fistfuls of postcards, and other memorabilia, Native People remain behind not quite good enough to be acknowledged as culturally valuable except for that which can be sold for profit, or which can be exploited in the name of ‘humanity’ by an indifferent government to make them look good on the world stage. The United Nations had other opinions however having condemned Canada on several occasions for its sorry record in the treatment of First Nations people. Little of the monies gained from all this exploitation finds its way back to Native communities. Native people are, overall not a wealthy people, so it is often difficult for us to keep our history in the forefront. We are not in a financial position to build monuments and museums showing the abuses of the last six hundred years. All we know is, as a friend of mine once said, "You gotta be hip to history, or be doomed to repeat it." Amen.
For my Mother’s and
Grandmother’s sakes, I do not want what happened to them to rise
again. We must learn from it, acknowledge it, and then move on.
Wilwilaaysk, All My Relations. Carl May was a German Writer who, in the 1920's, wrote fanciful tales about North American Indians. Generations of European children grew up on these stories. In his entire life Carl May never left Germany, and those of us on the other side of the big water have had to live with the fall out of his romantics meanderings ever since.
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ON LEADERSHIP FOR ALL
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The Covenant and Power
of Matriarchy Lies in Our Humanity |
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WHAT MAKES A GOOD LEADER
There is no room for arrogance or self-serving attitudes when dealing with the bigger picture - refusing to get back in the trenches from whence one has emerged, suggests a reluctance to go back and revisit perhaps painful personal history; this reluctance translates to a lack of sincerity in really wanting to help others through shared experiences. There is no such thing as a 'perfect' leader, one whose traits and attributes can be cut out of a common template and applied to all organizational situations. There are many different types of leaders who are equally effective in getting things done. Generally speaking, good leaders do have some similarities:
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There is no freedom of speech when people are terrified of being wrong |
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ASK
YOURSELF THE FOLLOWING QUESTIONS
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GENERAL GOALS FOR ORGANIZATIONS
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INDIGENOUS GAMING AND CASINOS: ETHICS VS REALITY
Gaming on Reserves is not new. Prior to European
contact, on social occasions Native people engaged in what was to the
Ancestors an innocent and fun leisure activity. The game of choice was
a type of ‘bones’ game: The Mi’Kmaq for example played ‘waltes’
which
called for the flipping of boned dice into a bowl; the Huron also had
a derivative of the game in which they used fruit stones as dice; the Nuu-chal-nulth called it
“lehal”; in this case drummers tried to
confuse their opponents. The Plains Native People (i.e. Lakhota) also
had a variety of gambling games, and on and on. Gambling was
restricted to the winter months, for such activity was thought to make
the people lazy if engaged in during the spring and summer months when
everyone was busy with hunting, fishing, trapping - preparing for
winter in other words.
Some
final thoughts and ironies:
Wilwilaaysk, All My Relations.
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Luther
Standing Bear, 1868-1937 "I am going to venture that the man who sat on the ground in his tipi meditating on life and its meaning, accepting the kinship of all creatures, and acknowledging unity with the universe of things was infusing into his being the true essence of civilization." "Out of the Indian approach to life there came a great freedom, an intense and absorbing respect for life, enriching faith in a Supreme Power, and principles of truth, honesty, generosity, equity, and brotherhood as a guide to mundane relations."
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Definition of Shared Leadership for Native Cultures and ALL Organizations
Having said all that, it behooves all four main cultural groups (Red, Black, Yellow and White) as indicated by the photos above to get together in a manner that pleases their Ancestors in a spirit of peace, cooperation to create a better world for ourselves and future generations. There is not much time left, as the prophecies state we are in our final days. We must elevate ourselves above jealousy, hate, racial discord and disharmony. This is still time. SHARED LEADERSHIP IS:
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